that infuriates me beyond words. hes such a great guy he doesnt deserve this at all, and he has to go through this, and shes so terribly immature that she not only wont allow him to see his child, but now wants to drag you into this. They are no longer together, so why should you and him matter. She made it clear that she didnt want him when she doesnt allow him to see his child. But im sure you know all my feelings on this subject anyway.

My thoughts on what to do? Be the better person. Stay out of it. If she tries anything, ignore her. But be a constant form of support for him. Make sure he knows that it doesnt bother you, so he doesnt take blame for what is happening. And if i was him, i would save every email or messenger conversation (if he has them) so he can show them when the fight for the child makes it to courts. Even with everything going on in my other friends life, he has those conversations that can kick his girlfriends ass when it comes to his custody hearing. Plus two of her own family are going to testify against her and her family (me and mom) ah the drama. Your boy and my friend just dont deserve this. They dont deserve to put up with all of this when it comes to the should be simple fact of seeing their own child.

Oh I assured him last night that Im not in the least bit worried about her, mostly because it was obvious by the things she was saying, that she had no idea who I am. Besides that, as long as he's completely honest with me, then there's no surprises and there's nothing she can use to get between us. But, like you said, all I can really do is keep myself out of it because its not my fight, and be there to support him in whatever way I can.

Oh, and when he told his parents* about the email (and it said more than just about me), his father told him that if she started to harass me in any way that they'd get their lawyer to send a letter to hers basically stating that she's to stay the eff away from me.


*His parents are obviously very supportive, and involved in his fight to see his son.