Does it make sense that I was more offended by the fact that he told me he watched me walk in the building and it looked like I had lost weight, than I was over the fact he was looking down my shirt? I really wanted to say "So I suppose I look like a cow every other day?". I did not take it as a compliment whatsoever. I do not like casual acquaintances pointing out my weight, I have a difficult enough time dealing with it on my own.
He was not the first person today that I caught looking down my shirt, and that is the sort of thing I take as a compliment. For the most part, I have yet to have a problem dealing with what essentially boils down to sexual harassment at work. As long as it is innocent, or the other party and I are on the same page, I can have fun with that. Besides, when it comes down to making sure I get my vacation approved next month, they can look at whatever the hell they want to look at. Everybody has a price, and my vacation plans are already made.
I will be working extra hours starting Saturday. This I decided today. Sometimes sucking up is not below me.
{Wednesday, September 20}
All you know about me is what I've sold you, dumb fuck. I sold out long before you ever heard my name.