A couple that I was once really good friends with has broken up. They were together over 3 years. Im actually surprised that they broke up actually. They were the type of couple that you thought would stay together forever, but not because they were great for each other, but because he was spineless and she was a bitch. She was your typical controlling-bitch of a girlfriend, I ceased all contact with her in December when she tried to control me (wanting me to make all plans around her, etc). He was your typical broken-down, under her thumb type of boyfriend. I have no idea what caused the breakup, or who broke up with who, or any details actually. Im hearing everything third-hand. I really hope that he broke up with her. I really want him to have grown a spine and told her to shove it.
The thing that gets everyone is that in all the time he stayed with her, they never had sex. He was not a virgin, but she was. Even my own boyfriend told me that he would have waited about six months, and if there was no sex, he would have found someone who would give him that. Most guys would agree. This girl would stay over the guy's house every Saturday night, and sleep in his bed with him, and not have sex. The only time that I've stayed at my boyfriend's house and not had sex with him was when I was on my period. I dont know if I could date someone for that long and not have sex. Personally I think that it was just another way for her to control him. But life's all about choices.
{Tuesday, March 9}
